Never mind. I was just trying to save some folks from some of the pitfalls I have encountered and maybe save them some money in the process.I realize that many of us, myself included, went about it ass backwards many times and because I did, I wasted a lot of time and money
I know I didn't finish my thoughts as I realized this was a topic that couldn't be finished in this setting. Just forget I said anything. I will shut-up and listen.
Sometimes I get thoughts that are hard to write out and I should stop trying to do that.
I think you're being way unnecessarily hard on yourself. You can have something to say and speak it ! I'd like to think we aren't enemies here. It wouldn't be much of a forum if everyone clammed up when one or two people didn't agree with what one person said. And you don't know that what you said won't help someone out who doesn't yet want to voice his or her concern about getting into this stuff of things flies . You really don't know that. And you don't know that one of the replies made in this thread might be what does it, that might not have happened if you never said what you said..